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Trauma Therapy Services in Santee, CA

PTSD and trauma counseling for those ready to heal

While you can’t control your circumstances, you can own your outcome


You’re here for a reason

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You are tired of suffering every day while your declining mental health demands your energy and attention – leaving little room for anything else.

You are physically and mentally exhausted.

  • Unable to sleep at night. 

  • Uninterested at work.

  • Unmotivated by the hobbies you used to love.

Whether you’re looking for a new strategy to handle persistent PTSD, trauma, or generalized anxiety, there is a compassionate approach that is right for you.

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If you’re not sure where to start and you’re ready to take the first step, you’re in the right place. 

You don’t have to do this alone.

Destructive patterns keep you from living your best life with confidence. You’re ready to work toward a healthier future and need a helping hand.

I’m proud of you for reaching out, and I’m so happy you’re here!

Welcome to Connective Healing Therapy.

Meet Your Therapist
Matti Mattilyn Millman Connective Healing Therapy Owner Therapist CEO Trauma Counselor Counseling
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I’m Matti (she/her), your Santee, CA trauma therapist and mental health advocate.

I know how heavy it is to carry trauma in your body, and how freeing it is when your body, mind, and soul are finally in sync.

With over 14 years of experience in the mental health field, my goal is to help you make friends with your brain so the rest of you can thrive.

Fall in love with your life again

You desperately want to show up as your authentic self.

I can’t wait to help you live your life the way it was meant to be – healthy and happy.

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“Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.”

— Vivian Greene

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800) 273-8255

National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-7233 or (800) 787-3224 (TTY)

National Sexual Assault Hotline (800) 656-4673

San Diego Adult Protective Services (APS) Hotline (800) 399-4661

San Diego Child Protective Services (CPS) Hotline (858) 560-2191 or (800) 344-6000

San Diego Access & Crisis Line (888) 724-7240

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800) 273-8255 ✦ National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-7233 or (800) 787-3224 (TTY) ✦ National Sexual Assault Hotline (800) 656-4673 ✦ San Diego Adult Protective Services (APS) Hotline (800) 399-4661 ✦ San Diego Child Protective Services (CPS) Hotline (858) 560-2191 or (800) 344-6000 ✦ San Diego Access & Crisis Line (888) 724-7240 ✦

Services
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Sexual Trauma

Don’t recover alone from an assault that shattered your sense of safety and trust. Take the brave step into therapy to help you feel safe in your body again.

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Young Adults

The transition from being a teen to becoming an adult can be tough to navigate. New responsibilities and relationships don’t have to be overwhelming.

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Parents

You find yourself snapping at your kids in a way that makes you wonder if you were ever meant to be a parent. I’ll help you find a healthy parenting style.

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Service Members / Families

Your family gives so much to support and defend our country. Find someone who understands the sacrifices you make and how to shoulder them.

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EMDR

Your technique for moving past trauma are no longer effective and you are feeling stuck. EMDR therapy could be right for you.

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Mindfulness/Holistic-Based Practices

You have a unique way of viewing the world. Understand what makes you tick and uncover your personal vibe.

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Walk & Talk Therapy

If you feel more relaxed with the breeze on your face and the sun on your skin, then let’s take your therapy outdoors.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Matti Millman, LMFT in Santee, CA

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Hi there, I’m Matti (she/her), and I believe you are the expert in your own life. I am honored to guide your mindset during this challenging time.

With over 14 years of experience working with clients, I have guided people from all walks of life to better mental health. It’s my passion to help you cultivate joy as your authentic self.

I can’t wait to see your progress!


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I believe everything works together:

The mind - how we think, how we speak, our dreams, and how we talk about ourselves and others. The body - how we move within it, how we feel being in our body, nourishing it, and how we treat it. The soul - our hopes, our dreams, our desires, who we are at the core, our beliefs, our purpose, our values, our energy, our vibe.

These are the cornerstones to living your life on your terms. Whether or not you are struggling in one or more of these areas, you can still have success in all.

As a trauma therapist in beautiful San Diego, CA, I have the privilege of working with a variety of people and lifestyles. Every past and each person I’ve met has proven the value of connecting.

As a wife and mother myself, I have experience handling family dynamics, neurodiversity, and trauma with care and understanding. I enjoy breaking up heavy sessions with humor to remember the bright spots. (I find myself funny - even if my kids don’t think so)!

My “person-centered” approach allows you to set the pace in your own recovery. My role is to get you off the sidelines and back in the driver’s seat of your life.

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